I miss You.. But I love Me More..!

Heyy You

I really Miss you.,

I miss the kind of person you were,

I miss the way you used to  blabber non stop.

I miss how you could carry  a one sided conversation for hours.

I know you do not recognise me properly with 20 kgs more, too many stretch marks and Quieter. BUT you know there is no regret to any of it.,

Those 20 kgs mark all the Dinners and Dates I went with My love in last 8 years and the cravings I settled during my Twin Pregnancy. My Stretch Marks symbolize as a ”BADGE of Motherhood” I wear with a high head.

And Yes it’s you, who is much Quieter and Calmer Now… but that’s what life is about and something you eventually later in life. There are going to be some unimaginable losses in life, something that will drown you in grief, But don’t stop just keep trying and face them head on , they will only make you Stronger and much less vulnerable later in life.

There’ll be few trains you are going to miss in life with a very heavy heart, but in exchange you’ll will get much more fun flights to experience making your life one hell of a joyride. I know you hate to live under the microscope of your Mother’s eyes and that poking felling you get with every little breath you take. But trust me, that’s that is just transforming you into a person who is not afraid and just keep moving no matter how life becomes, one who can take care of herself and many others around her . You will be a wonderful multi tasker and Time Manager you never though you could be, but trust me darling nothing is impossible in this whole damn world.

Many of your Friends will be hurting you with time every now and then, but try not to get angry or upset rather try to understand their perspective, and always be forgiving no matter what. They do not know the kind of life you live, the circumstances you have to go through every day, so it’s not their mistake to use some harsh words, it’s how they perceive life. Don’t make yourself  miserable from such small hurdles , you will rise and shine from the old ashes that was one yourself and turn into a majestic Phoenix with a heart and soul as bright as the fire from which it was born.

By the time, you’ll come to see me, you will be much content with life, trying to embrace everyone and everything which gives you a feeling of love and ready to LET GO of those who doesn’t. Life is too short to miss on things and your own happiness, as

“Life is too short, and happiness is too rare”

Try and forgive people, Leave them on their own, Do keep unrealistic expectations, Love wisely, Never stop Experimenting, Stay Creative and Be polite and no matter how hard life gets just keep moving forward “Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it isn’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!”.

You ll see how beautiful life is. Live it to the fullest because when you will meet me, you will have other things in your head, lesser people in your life and much bigger dreams in your Eyes.

I know you are super BUT still, I love me MORE…

Much Love

You Yourself (Today)

This blog post is a part of #Womensdayblogparty
I’d like to thank Ruta Vyas for introducing me after doing this amazing post in the same chain. She blogs her heart out on this wonderful blog Momma The Juggler. Check out her post about why she loves being a WOMEN here
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